let's talk dance

dance

/dans/

Verb Move rhythmically to music, typically following a set sequence of steps: "their cheeks were pressed together as they danced".

Noun A series of movements that match the speed and rhythm of a piece of music.

dancing is my passion. When I dance, I can temporarily forget all the troubles I have, as if I were to be in another dimension of my own. Where I will attend dance practices even if I'm sick or injured. I used to be shy, well I am still kind of a shy person now, but somehow dance has really thought me how to just dance and not fear about what people have to say. BUT there's still one thing that I really can't do that well which is freestyle in front of people. I just really can't but I'm trying my best to improve in that 💪 But in one way or another, I love to dance. Whether it's the stretching or the dance or the performance❤  And dance has a really special place in my heart, where I met you( I shouldn't be saying this but we shared really wonderful memories in dance) , where I met my wonderful dance friends and the wonderful laoshi. If I hadn't joined dance , I wouldn't meet the best teacher in the world.  I would love to post all the dance photos here but it's kind of alot so here's some of the really special moments I've had in dance that I will never forget to sum up this post.   So here's ndp'11 our first performance First dance camp And ndp'12  Cca carnival'13 And the twins' birthday celebration with the dance clique  And syf'13 , my first and last ❤ And lastly, sports day with the dancers The best memories of my secondary school life , has mostly dancers in it. So I'm thankful. Though I know things will never be the same, but I know I've had the best memories that I will never forget. So I thank the dancers. ❤And only dance, can make me cry so badly and be so happy at the same time. ♡

gratitude

Through the lowest points of my life, if not for these people , I wouldn't be who I am now.

Firstly, my dear baby sister. Thank you for always being by my side, listening to everything I have to say, giving me some sort of advice; for being by my side when i cried.You were the person I can trust with everything. And you will always be.

Secondly, all my dear cousin. You know who you are so thank you so so much. For caring for me so much , like my elder sister, I LOVE YOU SO SO SO MUCH OKAY❤ and I shall not go into details 

Thirdly all my dear friends. Okay time to list. 

Chooxuan

Laura

Yini

Jason

Ian

AND NOT TO FORGET 

dear lia

( and many more but special mention to the 3G girls, 3G clique and my dear dance clique) 

Thank you everyone. For being there for me. I truly appreciate it, in one way or another, I love you all.❤

this is going to be hard but I'm going to do this

First step to be able to move on: 

yes let it go. Stop holding on to those memories. Those memories were really beautiful but it's time to forget them and stop visiting them. Because one thing for sure, it's not going to happen again. Never. 

“If you want to forget something or someone, never hate it, or never hate him/her. Everything and everyone that you hate is engraved upon your heart; if you want to let go of something, if you want to forget, you cannot hate.” 

― C. JoyBell C.

Second step: forgive

Forgive them for everything they have done, no matter how much they have hurt you. Because this,is the only way you can forget the things they have done to hurt you and move on.

You may ask how. And so 

' you've just got to be strong. '

I'd tell myself to forget everything and erase the two of you from my life because only did I just realized, the person that hooks up with another so fast, isn't worth for me to even notice. And I only blame myself for being so stupid, for not letting go earlier, for not realizing earlier, for letting you two be friends. One thing I know, I trusted the wrong people but now I guess, it's not too late to realize. And definitely, I will be better off without you two.

a relationship

Getting in a relationship, well it's kind of pretty easy. Where two people are in love, the guy asks to be together ,the girl accepts, tada they are in a relationship. What's hard is maintaining the relationship where the two have to learn to give in to each other, try to understand each other, trust each other. This doesn't look hard but in actual facts it is. And the hardest, is getting out of a relationship or I can say the after breakup. You will lose the person you loved the most, the person you trusted the most, your best friend,your boyfriend/girlfriend. And having to be strangers when you two were once so in love , is what hurts so bad. And what hurts even more is when you see them together with another girl/boy , being so happy, without you. That heartbreak feeling, is perhaps what hurts the most. When you know you two will never ever be together again. Like never. And you can't just blame the other. Because it does takes two hands to clap right ?

love isn't that simple.

people say love is simple. Where two people fall in love, get together, and happily ever after. Apparently, this only exists in fairy tales and drama serials. let's now get back to reality. people who are in love don't necessarily get together, and people who get together don't have to be in love. 

And love doesn't mean the two have to be together. If one is happier with another, love is to wish the one happiness with the other.